For example I was chatting with a guy at Folsom when I had my tits out for public use and he said “you know I’m gay and have never actually felt boobs, I’m kind of curious. Women’s bodies are fascinating, like cephalopods.”

So I said “sure go for it” and he examined it without any sexual energy or intent to arouse me at all, to satisfy his curiosity. And he said “thanks, that was really interesting”. It was fun (thankfully he refrained from comparing how I feel to a cephalopod).

If somebody is being an asshole, or trying to hurt or degrade me, then obviously I wouldn’t enjoy that. But in general, yeah at a play party I like it when people pay attention to my boobs.

This is very situational. Most days I wear a sports bra and don’t show cleavage, if someone came to to me on the bus and grabbed my boob they’d get an elbow for starters.

You know how some people are better at playing a violin than other people? Some people are better at playing with boobs than other people.

And some people are like “oh yeah cool boobs I’ll give a honk”, some people you can see their whole facial expression and posture change, like they’re about to try a boss again and this time they’re not losing, they’re in it for the love of the game.