I run a Catholic youth group and I would love your feedback good and bad so we can make the experience better. If you are not Catholic, would you consider letting your child attend?
Thanks so much.
pretty sure this is a successful troll post
No. I don’t see enough christian youth groups helping the homeless or actually volunteering at shelters. I think more and more christian youth groups would succeed further if they actually do christian based things.
No. In fact all religions should be kept as far away from children as possible, and not just because the Catholics like to fuck them.
100%. Teach them about all the different religions, but don’t force any upon them. Secularism is the way to go: let people make up their own mind. Don’t shove it down their throats. Threatening children with going to the bad place for eternity is just indoctrination.
Why the hell would I want some religious nut indoctrinating my children? They don’t need to be threatened with hell to be decent people.
I’m sure some of the non-religious families just want someone to mind their children for free while they work but I’m happy to help.
Is this what qualifies as trolling these days? Makes me sad.
LOL no
Not religious and child-free: if I had a child and had made the decision to take it to religious youth groups, it would’ve been multiple so that the child finds out about the differences in beliefs. It would’ve been a Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, and whatever other religion I could find. If it were only Christian groups, then no.
A child should grow up to know that the world is diverse, learn how to think critically, how to question things, and how to think for itself. Once it’s adult, then it can join whichever group it wants. Introducing a child to a single view of the world would be counter-productive to its critical thinking skills and diversity of thought.
Thanks so much. We could have a day where all the faiths in our community get together and learn more about each other.
Why not make it an all-faith group? That way the children are always exposed to all faiths and experience diversity all the time. That could bring all people together.
Since we’re a Catholic group, we have to deliver on the expectations that Catholic parents have for us so I don’t think it would be possible to do it all the time.
I’m curious, what expectations do Catholic parents have and how would a multi-faith group not fulfil those expectations? This isn’t an aggressive question, I genuinely do not know what religious youth groups do. My guess would be reading their religious book, re-enacting parts of it, praying together, maybe even studying the religious scripts. So I am curious what your group does / would do.
We do a mixture of Bible readings, prayer and fun games but it can be hard to juggle because children like to play and be with each other but the parents want us to help their child prepare for Confirmation.
If we focus too much on Bible teachings than our attendance goes down and if we play too many games, we lose the Catholic identity of the group and the support of parents.
It’s hard to keep everyone happy.
I went to Christian youth groups/retreats for three different churches when I was a early teen and loved them all. They had these things in common
- run by kind young adults that I admired and connected with easily
- created safe spaces for awkward age kids to connect with each other
- had an outdoor / trip component
- explored values and exposed us to stories/ideas without being heavy handed or judgmental
- also pizza 🍕
Basically they were set up to help and support us, not to judge or control. They taught kindness by example and helped us learn how to be kind to each other.
Questioning / doubting / being confused was seen a way to grow faith - not as a sin or a threat. They let kids talk to each other as we figured out for ourselves what we believed. They shared candidly appropriate stories about their own journeys.
Thank you for wanting to give kids a good experience! Obviously there are folks in the catholic faith who have abused power in the past. Parents will associate you with that so taking safety seriously and encouraging parents to ask questions = important.
It takes time to build up a good community of kids - but once you have it they recruit each other. One of the most effective things you can do is invest in recruiting and training a “jr counselor” kid leadership structure. Having good kids that are a year or two older than you to look up to is really powerful- and older kids who accept responsibility for reaching out to new kids helps create a safe space.
Have in-jokes. Be active. Be silly. Go outside. Kids are so creative and amazing- follow their lead wherever you can.
I’m so glad to hear you had such a wonderful time! We do take safety very seriously and we know we have to earn the trust of our community.
A kid leadership structure is a great idea and it will give the younger kids something to aspire to.
Why do you want to groom children?
Only way I’d let my kid attend church in general is if they went to multiple religions so they could understand what other people believe and be informed.
This has got to be bait. Nobody is this stupid
I went there when I was a kid because I thought that it was mandatory by law. The day my parents told me I did that to please grandma, I stopped going, it’s fucking stupid beyond redemption.
Also I predict that OP @[email protected] is yet another bot that will ask a lot of questions without answering, or he will delete his account in less than a week.
No sir! I will not have my children taught idolatry.
