I will start by saying I have toyed with posting this because as soon as someone says they don’t wanna see it, someone will make a community for it. However I feel like some of the stuff that makes Reddit annoying is creeping over. And just because I don’t like it does not mean its not a valid community. So if it is least put in the right place (rather that the bigger generic communities) I can then just filter or block it.

Ill start I don’t want to see

  • Am I the arsehole
  • Relationship drama
  • Celebrity worship/drama

So what communities DON’T you want to see here?

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    I came in here expecting people would want rightwingers and fascists banned. Instead a bunch of y’all are here just going “I block out anything that’s not fun!!!1!!1!1! I don’t want to be reminded of the very real issues that plague the world!!” which I mean, you have every right to do that I guess. Good for you, enjoy your hole in the sand

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      Being on niche platforms kinda makes forces you into accepting being around weirdos and fascists. You get used to it. It kinda makes me feel good knowing I’m better tbh

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      Im one of those people. You seem angry about the concept. Is it morally acceptable to have any facet of life that doesnt revolve around the very real terrors that we cant stop?

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    pretty much if its unfun, then it gets blocked, so like pretty much everything politics related, most things pertaining to real world drama, and the communities that solely exist to bash on so-and-so. they are often pretty negative.

    we block a lot of stuff, heres a screenshot!

    the reason we block stuff is simply that we’re here for fun, not really to dabble in politics and so forth. there are times and places we set aside for that, where we do put effort into activism work, but this place is one we seek enjoyment in.

    please remember that happiness is a vital part of healthy being :)

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    Communities that are about actively looking for things to get mad at. Cringe, lolcows, ragebait, etc. It’s not healthy and it quickly devolves into bullying.

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      that’s the majority of what drives people’s engagement on the entire internet.

      the most angry folks are the most engaged and produce the most content. and bullying is the point.

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        selling crack is the best way to get quick buck! The most desperate folk are the ones you get the most money from. And getting them addicted and dependent on you is the point.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    Anything centered around video.

    communities that rely on misogyny, racism, or prejudice in general

    repost communities

    communities that promote generated content

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      Yea, there is already a lot of subs I don’t like, but… I have chose. An instance which is a little selective and block the rest. I also block spammy people with low tolerance.

      So far it works nicely.

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        yeah and its nothing against the communities. sometimes its just not my thing. Even with users it might not be that bad a person but they just grate on me. With the fediverse I decided to throw out many of the internet conventions and treat it like I would real life.

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    I don’t care because I can just block the community.

    I use voyager webapp and blocking a community takes 3 seconds:

    • you are in the „All“-tab
    • you see a community you want to never see again
    • you don’t have to enter the post or community, simply press and hold the community
    • tap „block community“
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      This is the way. Everybody has different interests, that is what “subscribed” is for. I have no interest in Anime, Sports and Porn, but do I think people with those interests shouldn’t be here? No.

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        The question op asked is a legitimate one, and I deliver the solution to the whole problem. Instead of being frustrated from communities I can simply block them.

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          I do block and I’m getting better at it.

          What’s prompted the question for me has been:

          Relationship drama in ask lemmy
          Celebrity crap in news

          That’s just 2 there has been more. In R they would have been in defined spaces that I ignore. Here people don’t know where to put them so it’s usually a generic but common community. This has had me thinking what do I hope does not start appearing.

          Still curious though. what one community DON’T you want to see here? Unlease your gripe, we all have them.

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    I have 0 patience for people who “don’t want to see that” on fedi. The whole concept behind fedi is to have a single connected web of every social media platform – the design and implementation is specifically intended to make space for literally everyone and everything. If you don’t like encountering something, it is incumbent on you to use the curation tools at your disposal to remove it from your feed – you have no right to try to remove it from fedi altogether.

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      Just because I’m saying I don’t want to see it doesn’t mean I don’t want you to see it. Let’s not get heated out the gate.

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        If this is straight out of the gate for you, I’m sincerely sorry your first comment you read on the matter was me getting heated. For me, this is approximately the 4 billionth thread about “how should we gatekeep fedi?” and I’m extremely over it, possibly to the extent that I react when “who should we gatekeep?” is only a small part of a larger conversation.

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    Any of the MGTOW/redpill/incel communities, as well as the communities posing as self improvement ones while feeding their new members directly into the redpill/incel pipeline.

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      I would propose that someone just make a conservative instance if they feel motivated enough to do so and then other instances can defederate according to what they feel is necessary.

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        Are you for real suggesting it’s the same lol? That’s a satirical com that even me as a cis man finds funny

        Edit: half the posts are just hyper horny transfem lesbian memes too so I don’t even know how you’d be offended by it

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        yeah, for me. i think any gender extremism should be banned and is toxic af.

        people who get so wrapped up in their gender identity that they need to police or harass other people over theirs, is fucked up.

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          Exhibit A: Callous disregard for human life

          Exhibit B: Glamorizing murder

          Exhibit C: Promoting sloth and laziness

          Exhibit D: Openly admitting to spreading disinformation

          Is THIS the sort of extremist, radicalizing content you want to see on the fediverse?

          I DEMAND to see more photos of Femcel Memes!

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          femcelmemes seems to be a very tongue in cheek community, based on what I’ve seen there. at best they roleplay the female equivalent of an incel to make fun of them.

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            depends on how you perceive of things. my experience of femcels is a lot of hostility and toxic behaviors.

            but i don’t think women are inherently weak or harmless, which if you do, would color how you interpret things, and is the default bias most folks have.

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    Fuck no, I DO wanna see the Lemmy flavor of AM I THE ASSHOLE!

    We’re all a bunch of older tech guys who regret how pro tech we were in the 00s or younger zoomers tryna “detox” from classic social media… or russian bots and creepy eastern europeans trying to convince be Black Arch should be my new daily driver. I WANT to see how you’re the asshole there!

    Like my god, imagine it. Imagine the kinds of things we’d see. Like

    “Am I (52m) the asshole for telling my wife (59f) she can’t use iPhone and telling her to use a dumbphone?”

    Or some shit like

    “Am I (20m) the asshole for telling my friends I’m not gonna make a tiktok account?”

    my god, this would be glorious! I want it, I NEED IT, bro! I fucking NEED to see this shit!

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      I liked seeing AITA posts on bestofredditupdates. we can’t have that without first having an AITA comm. So i support the creation of an AITA community

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        What would it be called?

        It would need quite specific rules. I’m not creating it however I do worry about those kind of things.

        I set up a guest tv and I felt really bad having to explain I use dedicated tv boxes and don’t want to tv connected to the internet. I was tempted to make a guide. I argued with myself it was an unreasonable expectation on my visitors.

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    I wish people would limit US politics to comms designated for that, rather than forcing the rest of us to wade through that filth looking for world news. It’s already all over every other news source.

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      God damn I know, like you can’t even escape it even in meme communities. The worst is the meme community posts that are literally just news posts in screenshot form. I don’t fucking care, how is a screenshot of something an American politician said on Facebook or Twitter funny?

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      Keyword filters work pretty well for this. I have keyword filters for Trump, Musk, Boebert, RFK, and I couldn’t give a flying fuck about if Mitch McConnell is dead or not.

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        Yeah, I have keywords for the usual suspects as well, but that requires them to be mentioned by name in the title, and it doesn’t cover US politics not involving those.

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      the political people here will argue with you how the shape of your poo is a political act and determines your ‘team’.

      for a lot of people US politics is the only thing that gives their life meaning.